I called him and yelled at him. She would send me gifts on Valentine’s Day, sketch portraits of me. When asked what product her former beau should endorse, she promptly said, “condoms” (seen as a sly reference to his Casanova image) and when she was quizzed about one question she’d like to pose to Katrina Kaif (who was by then seeing Ranbir), Deepika had responded with, “Can I see your passport ” While many at the time took that to be a dig at Katrina’s age or at possible visa troubles, it was later made clear that Deepika had actually asked the question in the context of reports that Katrina visited Ranbir in the US while he was shooting there for Anjaana-Anjaani. I would stay up the whole night, counting numbers backwards, just to get through the hours. It’s important that we don’t immediately block all the channels of communication unless of course the person gets nasty and abusive,” she explained. He doesn’t want to hurt anybody, so why hurt his wife ” But several years down the line, she changed her comments somewhat. Seeking the spotlight Few celebrity “exes” have received the kind of attention that Rekha and Amitabh Bachchan have. In an episode of Rendevouz with Simi Garewal, Rekha once again spoke about her feelings for Amitabh — although this time she claimed it had been an entirely one-sided devotion, and no more or less than the devotion of millions of the Big B’s fans. Extreme reactionsWhile some exes choose to go the self-destructive route when a relationship ends (think Sanjay Dutt whose addiction issues escalated after then girlfriend Tina Munim left him for Rajesh Khanna), others vilify their former partners. Deepika Padukone too had a couple of catty missteps, both on a talk show, and both times with respect to her former flame Ranbir Kapoor. Om Puri may be among Indian cinema’s most gifted actors, but his highly acrimonious break-ups with both his first and second wives — Seema Kapoor and Nandita Puri, respectively — did not show him in the best possible light. “A lot of people can’t deal with the trauma of breaking up and one needs wisdom and maturity to deal with such issues. He created a ruckus on the sets of Ash’s films Kuch Hanging vacuum storage bag Na Kaho and Chalte Chalte; by September 2002, the actress said in an interview with a leading daily, “Salman and I broke up last March, but he isn’t able to come to terms with it. His much publicised relationship and subsequent split with Aishwarya Rai was attended by allegations of abuse, harassment, and even a police complaint.What happens when a relationship ends, but one half of the couple isn’t able to move on Celebrity relationships are rife with examples of exes who’ve behaved in the worst possible ways Rumours of an affair between Rekha and Amitabh Bachchan have persisted for years.”. Later on, when you have gained some wisdom, you realise it was all for a good reason. Sanjay Khan-Zeenat Aman put bad behaviour by exes in another league altogether. Karthik Aryan (of Pyaar Ka Punchnama fame) recounted how a family friend wanted to be in a relationship with him.
While rumours of an affair between the duo were fanned by their hit pairing in films like Do Anjaane, Ganga Ki Saugandh and reached a crescendo by the time they acted together in Silsila (the love triangle also featured Jaya Bachchan, in a case of reel life imitating real life), the after-effects have persisted for years. What was undeniable, however, was how uncomfortable he made Katrina when she appeared on an episode of his reality show Bigg Boss. While Amitabh Bachchan has not publicly addressed the reports of the “affair”, Rekha has alluded to it on a couple of occasions. But it all unravelled in an ugly fashion — with Sanjay physically attacking Zeenat in the lobby of a hotel. Indeed, literature and the arts, high culture and pop culture have made the idea of the forlorn, lovelorn ex — hanging onto fragments of their past relationship, trying desperately to woo back their former partner — seem like the romantic ideal. She was the one who liked me. Relationship expert Dr Seema Hingorrany has seen many cases where an ex is unable to move on, and makes things uncomfortable for their former partner. Seeking closure in a relationship is therefore very important before moving on. How do you keep from descending into becoming an object of pity or ridicule Actor Chandan Roy Sanyal offers his own story: “I was deeply in love with a girl, my former girlfriend. Their love story is said to have blossomed between 1997-99, with the relationship firmly established by their Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam days. Adele made millions with her songs of broken love, of not getting over an ex who left her heartbroken — think of Someone Like You. Sanjay was married to Zarine Khan when he and Zeenat began a much-talked-about relationship; in fact, reports at the time even stated that the duo had tied the knot.. I told him to do no such thing and maintain a dignified silence if that is possible,” Katrina had said in an interview, about the incident. But are they really What happens when an ex simply refuses to let go What happens to the other partner, who wants very much to move on Unfortunately, many celebrities do not quite set the right example when it comes to dealing with a broken relationship with dignity.
